Archive for the ‘Aggression’ category

I.Q. Vs. Self-Discipline…what to focus on?

November 17, 2011

This article really caught my attention. Kids are born with a set I.Q. so there’s not much change to be had. Self-Discipline otherwise known as Self-Regulation can be taught and learned. Take a look at this article and pay special attention to the graph if you don’t have time to read… If we can teach [...]

Is playfighting okay? Part Two of “Exploring Human Aggression”

March 19, 2009

Now, I’ve always wondered about play fighting. My daughter and son engage in this activity nightly prior to bed as part of their goodnight dad ritual. As an outsider looking in, I can see three advantages. Kids learn, who’s stronger, they learn what’s acceptable and lastly they learn the limits of others. But what’s most [...]

How do I stop my toddler from hitting?

March 19, 2009

Most of us who have kids are familiar with the famous terrible two’s stage, or as I like to call it, the “I’m losing my mind-” parenting stage. This is a critical stage in terms of a child’s social development. You see, if parents can manage to stay calm and model effective ways to communicate [...]

Bullying-Exploring the roots of aggression

March 17, 2009

Adolescents don’t suddenly become aggressive, bullying is an aggressive act, so lets go one step further and explore the origins of human aggression. There is often a very long history of predisposition and experience. The highest count of human aggressive acts can take us as far back as two years of age. If we were [...]

Why does my toddler hit?

March 9, 2009

This has got to be one of the most common threats to household harmony.  Mom or dad is making dinner, folding clothes and talking on the phone with the age old themed music of siblings battling it out in the background.   Sibling rivalry is a topic on its own that i’ll discuss in the near [...]


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